在链表c++的同时保持迭代器有效

有一些关于带有列表的迭代器的文章 here 使用 insert 和 splice here 函数,但我仍然无法为我的情况转换它们,我正在遍历一个列表,如果满足某个条件,我希望将元素拼接(移动)到另一个列表,但如前所述 here 迭代器跳到拼接容器。如何保持迭代器与原始循环相关,如下面的示例所示。

#include <iostream>
#include <algorithm>
#include <vector>
#include <string>
#include <map>
#include <ctime>
#include <list>

using namespace std;

class Individual {
  public:
    Individual(bool state) : state_(state) {}
    bool my_state(void) {
        return state_;
    }
  private:
    bool state_ = true;
};


int main () {
    cout << "----------Enter Main----------" << endl;
    list<Individual>  list_individuals;
    list<Individual>  cache_list_individuals; 

    // initialise
    for (auto i = 0; i < 100; ++i) {
        if (i <= 50)
            list_individuals.push_back(new Individual(true));
        else
            list_individuals.push_back(new Individual(false));
    }
    unsigned counter = 0;
    for (auto iter = list_individuals.begin(); iter != list_individuals.end(); ++iter, ++counter) {
        if ((*iter).my_state()) {
            cache_list_individuals.splice(cache_list_individuals.begin(),list_individuals, iter);
            // I need to make the iterator related to list_individuals not cache_list_individuals
        }
    }

    cout << "----------Exit Main----------" << endl;
    system("PAUSE");
    return 0;
}